There’s nothing better than starting the new year with:

• new goals

• new energy

• new vision

• new passion 

• new clarity

• new dreams

But let’s be honest. For most of us, by the end of January we’ve already forgotten the goals we set early on or we’re discouraged because we’re not on track in the way we’d imagined. That double bind can then lead to shame and guilt, resulting in a feeling of defeat where we conclude that it’s easier not to set goals or cast a vision for the upcoming year.

Then the whole thing shuts us down.

So….how would you like an action-oriented plan to reboot your resolve?

As a way for you and your daughter to be strategic right out of the gate here at the start of this new year if you’re dealing with:

• fatigue

• fear 

• false starts

• fogginess

• failure

• fatalism

I have a creative idea to move things FORWARD should you be ready to step up and step in to 2023 with a FOUR WORD mindset.

This FUN grid is one page that you can print out and use to open up a great conversation with your daughter as each of you choose four areas you want to focus on this year.

And no, I didn’t write this, but I found it online. And many of my counseling clients this week have told me they LOVE it! If your daughter is anything like the courageous women I counsel, I assure you they’ll also find it fascinating and eye-opening.

Here’s your assignment this week: 

After printing off this handout, join your daughter in circling the first four words you see on the page and it will:

• strengthen your bond

• guide your focus this year

• give you a creative way to brainstorm together about your values

• open up a clever and potentially powerful conversation using the prompt words on the page

And just so you know I’m in this with you, I’ll start by sharing the first four words I just circled:

1. connection

2. creation

3. strength

4. love

Now it’s your turn. Feel free to write me and tell me the words you and your daughter circle because I’d love to hear how it goes!

Happy New Year and let’s all commit to making 2023 the best it can be by leaning intentionally into those relationships we value most.

Click here for the pdf attachment of the “The First 4 Words Will Sum Up Your 2023."