Dad, Lead Your Daughter to LAUGH

I can’t believe that this week marks the first birthday of my book, Let’s Talk: Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters…Whoo hoo!

As a fun way to celebrate this milestone, I want to highlight the first section of the book that starts with an important aspect of father leadership, and one that I believe we can all benefit from right now: MORE LAUGHTER!

Did you know that neuroscientists confirm the importance of laughing together, claiming that our brains release chemicals when we laugh in ways that strengthen long-term relationships and reinforce social bonding? Isn’t that amazing that God wired our brains to automatically release oxytocin to offset the stress hormone of cortisol simply by activating some merriment!

Listen to what authors Berezin and Liss had to say in their recent article, The Neuroscience of Laughter, and How to Inspire More of It at Work:

“Laughing swaps the cortisol in our bloodstream with highly sought after chemicals in the brain: dopamine, oxytocin and endorphins. Dopamine can enhance learning, motivation, and attention. And when Oxytocin, the “bonding chemical,” enters the bloodstream it creates feelings of relatedness while endorphins trigger feelings of pleasure by improving immune functioning, stress relief, improved cardiovascular health, reduced anxiety, sense of safety, and improved mood.”

How’s that for an incredible list of positive relational and health impacts as a result of connecting to humor with a bit of glee!

And if, by chance, you’re currently experiencing relational challenges with your daughter, rest assured that finding ways to express joy and activate shared laughter can help to soften any tension between you.So if laughter really is the best medicine, then every father would benefit from increasing his skill set in activating it, wouldn’t you say?

So if laughter really is the best medicine, then every father would benefit from increasing his skill set in activating it, wouldn’t you say?

Here are some practical, light-hearted, fun, and funny questions to ask your daughter to not only lighten and brighten her day…but yours too!

Dad, ask your daughter:

1. What about me makes you laugh?

2. What item of my clothing would you love to see me get rid of

3. Do you ever think about your wedding day? If so, what do you imagine? If not, why not?

4. What are three outrageous things you wish you had the nerve to do?

5. If you could be any animal, which one would you say is most like you and why?

These questions are in Let’s Talk, and as a gift to you today for reading and sharing my Dad-Daughter Friday blogs, here’s a link to my e-book, which are the first three chapters: Let's Talk eBook.

Or you can buy the full version here on Amazon.

Enjoy…and happy laughing!